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Namanya sedang menjalani masa pendekatan alias PDKT, emang gak semuanya berujung jadian. Gak sedikit beberapa orang harus berbesar hati dan menerima kekecewaan akibat gebetan yang gak punya perasaan serupa.
Tetapi bila kamu sering mengalami PDKT yang gagal, sebaiknya sering-seringlah untuk introspeksi diri. Kira-kira, apa nih yang bisa membuat PDKT kamu jadi gak berhasil.
Nah, berikut ini ada 4 penyebab yang kemungkinan besar jadi alasan kenapa kamu selalu gagal PDKT.
# Punya standar terlalu tinggi
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Berbagai alasan mengapa selalu gagal dalam PDKT (pexels.com)
Sebenarnya, gak salah kok kalo kamu punya standar pasangan tersendiri. Hal kayak gini bisa mencegah kamu dari mendapatkan pasangan yang gak tepat.
Tapi, dalam memasang standar pun harus logis, ya. Kalo ketinggian, bisa-bisa proses pendekatanmu jadi malah gagal terus. Sebab, saat mengetahui sedikit kekurangan gebetan aja bisa bikin kamu ilfeel.
# Terlalu ngoyo
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