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Pendekatan menjadi masa-masa dimana kamu bisa menilai calon pasanganmu. Namun perlu diingat, kalo gak semua masa pendekatan itu bakal berjalan mulus, ya.
Gak jarang, kamu dihadapkan dengan orang yang ujungnya cuma ngasih harapan palsu. Saat kamu berharap dia bakal memberikan kepastian, ujung-ujungnya ternyata dia cuma memberikan sinyal-sinyal palsu yang bikin kamu sakit hati.
Supaya gak jadi korban PHP gebetan, yuk kenali dulu 4 cirinya di bawah ini.
# Gak konsisten ngirim pesan
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Ilustrasi orang mengirim pesan di ponsel (pexels.com)
Tanda pertama kalo dia gak serius banget ke kamu adalah saat mengirim pesan. Ya, orang yang gak serius, pasti bakal gak konsisten ngechat kamu. Biasanya, ini ditandai dengan si dia yang sering ngilang tanpa kabar.
Padahal kalo emang niat suka, mau apapun alasannya, si dia pasti bakal ngeluangin waktu buat ngirim kamu pesan.
# Menggantungmu dalam hubungan yang tidak jelas
Saat lagi pendekatan, pastinya kamu pengen dong semua berujung dengan kejelasan? Walaupun dia udah sering bikin kamu berbunga-bunga, belum berarti dia benar-benar mau lho sama kamu. Apalagi kalo kamu udah sering nanyain soal kejelasan dan gak ditanggepin, itu berarti dia cuma ngasih harapan palsu ke kamu.
# Sering gak tepatin janji
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