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Kencan pertama emang selalu jadi fase awal yang penting banget sebelum menjalin hubungan serius dengan seseorang. Sebab, di fase inilah kamu bakal mengetahui karakter serta kepribadian dia lebih jauh lagi.
Tetapi selain mengenali karakter dan kepribadian, di kencan pertama kamu udah bisa lho membaca apakah sekiranya ada red flag dari si dia sebelum kalian melangkah lebih jauh.
Nah, apa aja nih kira-kira red fleg yang bisa kamu identifikasi? Berikut ada 3 diantaranya, yuk simak!
# Membicarakan Masa Lalu dengan Mantan
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Beberapa red flag saat kencan pertama kali (pexels.com)
Ketika kencan pertama, ada begitu banyak topik obrolan yang bisa kamu bahas untuk mengenal satu sama lain. Entah itu hobi, soal film, musik, dan aktivitas masing-masing.
Tapi kalo dari pertama ketemu doi udah bahas masa lalunya, apalagi mantan, ini bisa jadi red flag buat kamu, lho. Sebab, ini nunjukkin kalo dia masih belum bisa move on dari bayang-bayang masa lalu. Saat dia bahas mantan, kamu mesti nanya ke diri sendiri apakah dia benar-benar tertarik denganmu atau malah sebaliknya.
# Terlalu Romantis
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