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Mungkin ada dari kalian yang merasa kalo udah berusaha sekeras mungkin demi hubungan. Misalnya, udah ngasih hadiah macem-macem buat dia, tapi dia masih aja nggak seneng dan puas.
Duh, jangan-jangan ini karena pasangan kalian punya bahasa cinta yang berbeda. Mungkin bagi kamu dapetin hadiah tuh bikin happy dan merasa dicintai, tapi nggak baginya.
Nah, Dr Gary Chapman dikenal dengan teori 5 bahasa cinta atau Five Love Languages. Ini bisa bantu mengevaluasi hubungan kalian dengan pasangan. Kalian perlu mengenali diri sendiri dulu, apa sih bahasa cinta yang paling utama dari diri kalian? Setelah itu, kalian bisa mencoba mengetahui juga bahasa cinta milik pasangan.
Berikut ini 5 bahasa cinta menurut Dr Gary Chapman. Silakan tentukan mana bahasa cinta yang paling kamu banget gengs.
1. Acts of Service
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membantu pasangan (pinterest.co.kr)
Acts of Service tuh maksudnya melayani. Jadi, kalian yang memiliki bahasa cinta ini seneng kalo dibantu sama pasangan. Entah itu dibantu memasak, membawakan tas, dan lain-lainnya. Ngeliat pasangan berusaha demi bantu tuh bikin kalian seneng. Kalian juga suka menawarkan bantuan pada pasangan.
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