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Seringkali, kita mendapatkan pertanyaan soal kapan nikah dari orang-orang terdekat. Apalagi pertanyaan ini biasanya muncul saat sedang berkumpul bersama keluarga besar.
Walaupun pertanyaan semacam ini cuma untuk basa-basi aja, gak jarang kita menjadi merasa terganggu.
Nah, kalo kamu sering dapat pertanyaan macam ini, gak perlu dimasukin ke hati! Kamu bisa mengikuti tips berikut ini untuk menjawabnya.
1. Beri jawaban bijak
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Cara pertama yang bisa kamu lakukan adalah menjawabnya dengan jawaban yang bijak. Misalnya seperti:
"Jodoh kan di tangan Tuhan. Kita udah berusaha, tinggal tunggu jawabannya."
"Masih memantaskan diri, nih. Nggak usah buru-buru."
2. Ajukan pertanyaan balik
Saat kamu diberi pertanyaan, gak ada salahnya jika kamu ikut memberikan pertanyaan yang sekiranya menantang mereka, seperti:
"Mau kasih amplop berapa sih emangnya?"
"Kamu sendiri kapan? Kan masih sendiri juga!"
"Memangnya yakin bakal aku undang kalau nikah?"
3. Jawab dengan senyuman
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