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gaslighting (businessinsider.com)
Itu adalah contoh kasus gaslighting. Tiara dan Doni pake cara gaslighting agar pasangannya ragu sama pikiran mereka sendiri. Ini membuat kesalahan mereka tertutupi. Padahal udah jelas di depan mata.
Seringkali korban gaslighting nggak sadar udah jadi korban. Hal ini karena taktiknya sangat halus dan nggak keliatan. Tapi kalo nggak disadari, lama-lama mental korban bisa melemah dan jadi terlalu bergantung sama pasangan.
Korban gaslighting bakal terus-terusan minta maaf sama pasangan. Padahal sebenarnya bukan salah dia. Akhirnya, kalian jadi mencoba memaklumi pasangan saat dia melakukan kesalahan karena takut bikin masalah.
Satu-satunya yang bisa kalian lalukan kalo punya pasangan yang suka gaslighting adalah: tinggalkan. Kecuali, kalian sama-sama sadar dengan gaslighting dan dia mau berubah.
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